Avoiding Premature Ejaculation - Do Distraction Techniques Work? The Truth Will Surprise You!
When it comes to avoiding premature ejaculation, there are no lack of myths and misconceptions about techniques that work and those that don't. One of the most common techniques you would probably have heard of is using distraction of thoughts during sex. Does it work? Well, let's find out the truth.
The straight scoop about distraction techniques...Distraction techniques function on the basis of pre-occupying your mind with something else when you are close to an orgasm. Some guys think of non-sexual things such as sports or even ugly personalities to pull their minds off sex for a moment. It all sounds logical and some guys claim that this technique works for them. But there is an underside: you are taking away the joy of sex instead of staying in the moment to savor and fully experience lovemaking. Would sex be as fun and tantalizing if you were to think of something else? I think not!
Use this as an acid test: Would you prefer to be thinking about the wonderful woman you are making love to, or would you rather drum up some images of a dirty, scruffy football player? I think the answer is pretty obvious to you.
This is what you should do instead...
Now, instead of "tuning out" from sex using distraction tactics to delay ejaculation, why not "tune in" to sex? Well, this may seem counter-intuitive at first. You see, you may think that the very reason you are ejaculating prematurely is because your mind and body are being stimulated too much too soon. That is true, and that is is probably why you are trying to distract yourself to avoid blowing too early.
On the contrary, you should immerse yourself totally into sex, but the key is not in focusing on the pleasure of your penis in her. Instead you should focus on the whole-body experience of sex. Stay 'in tune' by taking the focus away from YOU to HER. Focus exclusively on pleasuring your female partner first and enjoy the fact that you are keeping her on the edge instead of yourself. This is surprising easy to do, and very effective in increasing your staying power in bed.
Practice makes perfect!
Of course staying in tune with the whole experience of sex cannot be mastered right away. It takes some practice, but it is something well worth doing and practicing. And your woman will certainly thank you for it when you are able to last long enough to give her that much deserved orgasm!
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